Roughing It

There is a certain amount of security and comfort in doing things the hard way. That may seem counter intuitive, but it's true.

Nobody likes trouble, and humankind is known for going to great lengths to make their lives easier. The easy way has its obvious attractions: less work, fewer problems, quicker rewards. Still, troubles will come your way unbidden from time to time, regardless of your choosing the easy road. Every person must deal with hardships at some point. Occasionally choosing to rough it prepares you for the unexpected and gives you peace of mind knowing that you are capable of handling those troubles.

There is often satisfaction in taking on a difficult goal and working to the solution. People do puzzles and read mysteries for just that reason. Human beings need to be challenged to be happy. Yet, I'm still faced with quizzical looks when I choose a tougher path.

Several years ago, I spent a week of vacation building a large terraced planter in the far corner of our yard. It was constructed of retaining wall blocks, each only a few pounds, but in total, with all of the blocks, the gravel for drainage, and the earth to fill it, the building materials amounted to over a ton. All of it was carried across the yard and put into place bit by bit, all the digging and tamping done by hand, as well. Every night that week, I went to bed with muscles so stiff and aching that falling asleep was a feat. Every night, I listened to my husband ask why I wasn't using power tools when possible or why I wasn't waiting for the weekend when he could help me. Now, that planter is no more, dismantled bit by bit and the pieces reused for other projects. Nevertheless, it lives on in my mind as a testament to what can be done when you take the job one step at a time.

It's comforting to know you can do something the hard way, or to know that you can make do with less. At this year's family camp out, we discussed the tendency to try to plan for everything. Some campers bring loads of equipment, hoping that they won't be caught without a key item when an issue arises. While it's wise to be reasonably prepared, my cousin observed that some of the most memorable camping experiences come when you have to improvise solutions with what's on hand. Unexpected hardships can be seen as satisfying challenges. Not only is there satisfaction in enduring or overcoming the hardships, but they also make you grateful for the times you're free of them. There is nothing like bundling up and walking through the snow to a pit toilet in the middle of the night to make you appreciate indoor plumbing.

The basic things that many people take for granted were not always part of my childhood. There were times when we went without heat, electricity or running water. We thought of ways to cope, and we struggled through the hardships because we had no choice. Now, though my life is rarely as troubled as it once was, I find myself trying on those hardships again, for old time's sake.

I may camp in the cold or bring minimal equipment. I'll build without power tools. Sometimes, I walk miles rather than drive. I choose the more challenging route because it helps me to realize that I can deal with the minor inconveniences with a smile. I know that there is comfort and security in doing things the hard way.