Love Your Weeds, Again (and again, and again, even when it seems like others will never agree)
Back in May of 2010, I wrote a post on the joys of having a little untamed greenery in your domain. Later, in July, I followed it with a tale of the conflict of landscaping philosophies we've had with a neighbor and how we managed to assert our autonomy in the face of his hostility. What appeared to have been resolved then was only sleeping, it seems, to wake when the neighbor felt a little cantankerous again. A little over a week ago, I was out pruning the lilacs and trimming some of the other plants that decorate our front yard when he asked to talk to my husband. His complaint was that our son never mows the patch of "weeds" near the fence, and he was concerned they might creep over and affect his garden. Now, there are certain areas where the natural plants flourish and add a woodsy quality to the shady parts of the yard. There are also areas where we have deliberately planted native perennials because they're w...